Digging for Love

Introduction

Growing a garden is like growing a relationship. You have to take care of it or else, nothing will grow and it will all die. You have to make sure you’re looking up and out of your garden and not just down at the dirt in front of you. Make sure you take the time to invest in yourself so that when love comes knocking on your door, you’ll be ready for it!

There are many ways to find love, but the best way is always from home.

There are many ways to find love, but the best way is always from home.

Loveableness can be found in your garden, your favorite hobby and even in the people around you. Loveableness comes with a sense of belonging, a sense of being at ease wherever you are. It’s not necessarily romantic love or sexual attraction; it can be sensual or aesthetic (or both).

So why do we need to dig for love when it’s right under our feet? Because sometimes we get so busy going about our day-to-day lives that we forget what really matters most: ourselves. Do you remember when you were young and felt like there was nothing more important than digging in your garden? That feeling has never left me—because I know now that there isn’t anything more important than digging into yourself!

Growing a garden is like growing a relationship. You have to take care of it or else, nothing will grow and it will all die.

Growing a garden is like growing a relationship. You have to take care of it or else, nothing will grow and it will all die. The same goes for love. All relationships require work and care in order to thrive. If you don’t give your significant other what they need, then the relationship will not survive long term. However if you do give them what they need then the relationship can flourish into something beautiful and amazing!

A garden is also similar to life because everything requires time and effort in order to reach its full potential. For example: when planting seeds you must water them often so that they have enough moisture until they sprout into plants, flowers or vegetables which will provide food for all living creatures on our planet including ourselves!

Like in a garden, you need to pull out the weeds in your life to make room for the good things to grow.

Weeds are a sign of neglect.

They’re also a reminder that you need to be careful about what you bring into your life and how much attention you give it. If you don’t keep your garden healthy, the weeds will grow and take over, choking out all the good plants. You can pull them out by hand or use chemicals (we’re pretty anti-chemical here), but either way, they have an annoying tendency to pop up again.

Weeds aren’t always bad—some can be good for us and our gardens (like dandelions in salads) but most of us would agree that more than one or two scattered throughout isn’t ideal. Like in a garden, we need to pull out the weeds in our lives so that we can make room for the good things to grow: friendships, love relationships, careers…and whatever else makes your heart happy!

It’s okay to be alone when you’re alone, but don’t be alone when you don’t have to.

I love being alone. I love silence and solitude, but we don’t live in a world that makes it easy to do either of those things. Being around people is where I feel most comfortable, but sometimes it can be difficult to find the balance between spending time with other people and giving myself space when I need it.

One thing that helps me is knowing that even though my friends are not physically present with me, they are still there for me when I need them – whether it’s something small like a phone call or something bigger like a visit. The same goes for my family: they might not be around physically (usually), but they’re always there in spirit if I need them (and vice versa).

Make sure you’re looking up and out of your garden and not just down at the dirt in front of you.

It’s a good idea to keep an eye on the big picture. In your garden, it’s easy to get caught up in the weeds and moss that are growing in your flowerbeds. But if you look up, you’ll see how beautiful the trees are around your home. Sometimes we spend so much time looking down at our own lives that we forget to take note of what else surrounds us. The more time we spend looking up and out of our own gardens, the more we can appreciate all that is around us and all that is possible for our future gardens.

Think about where you’ve been when digging through your past experiences—and then think about where you’re going next! This will help guide what kind of work needs done on which parts of your life so that there won’t be any weeds (figuratively speaking).

People who garden together stay together.

Gardening together is a great way to stay together. It’s also a good way to keep the passion alive in your relationship. Whether you’re married or not, it’s easy for couples to get caught up in their daily routines and lose sight of what brought them together in the first place. Gardening can help bring you back on track by giving you something new to do together and a reason to spend more time with each other. As an added bonus, gardening will make you better at working together as a team—and that’s something that everyone should be able to appreciate!

Make sure you take the time to invest in yourself.

We all know that love is a precious commodity. It’s something we crave and it’s something we all want more of in our lives, but how do we get it? Well, part of the answer lies within ourselves. If you don’t take care of yourself or if you’re not happy with yourself then how can anyone else be happy with you?

It’s imperative to invest some time in yourself each day, whether that be doing something relaxing like reading a book or taking a walk through your garden. No matter what you choose to do make sure it makes you feel good about who you are and where your life is going.

We often forget to take care of ourselves when we’re busy taking care of other people (our partners), so make sure that this doesn’t become an issue for any reason whatsoever!

Conclusion

Well, that’s it for this week. I hope you enjoyed reading my blog post as much as I enjoyed writing it! Please leave your comments below, and be sure to subscribe for more great content soon. Until then…

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